Looking for information: Snumple is missing

docholligay:

keyofjetwolf:

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This is very much not the post I wanted to be writing, but this is the point we’re at.

Several days ago, I was contacted by Snumple’s brother, Vladimir. Snumple – Xenia – had been missing for over 48 hours, and he was looking for any information on where she might be. I didn’t have any ideas, but through our conversation, he seemed to gain a larger picture of the sort of emotional state she’d been in lately.

Which, unfortunately, was not good. As you all know, she deleted her Tumblr a few weeks ago. It was an action that I found extremely worrying, particularly given Xenia’s increasing depression, but she was set on it. Still, after deleting it, her mood seemed to improve and I hoped things were getting better for her. Then emails sent to her began to bounce, saying the account had been deactivated.

The timing coincides with when she went missing. “Worrying” no longer seems sufficient.

Xenia’s been missing now since the morning of 16 May (it’s the 20th as of this writing), making it over four days since anyone last saw or heard from her. She left her phone and her passport at home. Her family and volunteers have been searching the city and surrounding woods, but have so far not found anything.

I know she was friends with many of you. If you have any ideas or information about where she may have gone, anything she might have mentioned or hinted at, please let me know so I can pass the information to her brother. And if by chance you’re in the area of St. Petersburg in Russia and might be willing to volunteer to help search, let me know that as well so I can find out where to direct you.

This situation is absolutely heartbreaking. I love Snumps very much. I hold out hope for the best, but even if the worst, she needs to be found so her family can know peace.

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I don’t really have much to add to this, except if you know something please contact me or jet. And I’ve been sitting on this for a few days, so if I’ve been nasty to you you know why now.

just bitching, but on my computer! have a readmore

I really am not fond of the “parent abuses/neglects child for x amount of years and then suddenly wants back in their life so they use money (generally exorbitant amounts of it) to buy the kid’s affections.” 

Especially when the ‘child’ in question is fucking 38 years old.

And has just come out of a 10 year abusive relationship and needs to find their own self and their own footing.

And the parent decides that no, THEY know what’s best for the other person, they need to buy everything and do everything and no, they won’t hear another word about it and they’re being super controlling over how the other person lives their life (rushes them to find a job, rushes them to cut ties with the ex so that it’s sloppy and shE FUCKING EMAILED THE EX FROM HIS ACCOUNT AND IT WAS A NASTY NOTE HE WOULD NEVER SEND SO NOW THE EX IS ALL ANGRY WOW MOM GOOD JOB etc etc) and I’m just like …??????

excessive bitching about google images

ok so i know why, really i do

but WHY is it that WHENEVER I WANT TO LOOK UP REFERENCES FOR TWO WOMEN TOGETHER I get like NOTHING from google unless it’s fucking erotic. AND EVEN THEN THERE’S ALMOST NOTHING IF IT’S A NORMAL, EVERYDAY THING LIKE HOLDING HANDS OR IDK WASHING DISHES OR SOME SHIT

and if I take ‘women’ out of the title to get some kind of actual GOOD reference for whatever the fuck it is I want, it’s mostly all fucking hetero and I’m just SO TIRED OF IT YES BOB AND JANE ARE SUPER CUTE HOLDING HANDS NOW I WANT TO SEE JANE AND MARY HOLDING HANDS AND KISSING AND CUDDLING AND WASHING THE FUCKING DISHES IS THAT TOO MUCH TO ASK FOR 

fucking apparently

also how fucking steamed am I that I have to included ‘women’ or ‘ladies’ in the title just to filter out the hetero WHY CAN’T IT ALL BE NORMAL 

ARGH

Oh. I am just…loving my apt managers more and more with each passing day.

So it turns out that if you lock yourself out, they won’t send the maintenance guy to help you. Either you have to call a locksmith yourself to come out, or you have to go down to the office with ID to somehow prove who you are, even though half the apts here have multiple people who aren’t on their lease.
Good luck if your car keys are with your house keys, cause then they tell you to take an Uber. But Elaina, you may ask, what if your phone is inside so you can’t call an Uber?
Good. Fucking. Luck.