raphcrow:

brittleglory:

i know resting bitch face is like a joke thing but um has anyone ever talked about how profoundly soul-destroying it is to be told you look sad or angry or like you hate everyone when you uhhh actually are…genuinely trying to be nice or gregarious or even were in quite a good mood and had literally no idea you were even coming across as aloof or unpleasant 

True story time, I’ve had someone stop me in the hallway to ask what was wrong, when in reality I was just thinking about what to eat for lunch? Another time a past manager of mine texted me while training at a new job and told me not to scowl at people because it was intimidating.

People IRL literally think I’m scary when in reality I’m a giant doofus